Want to know the secret to levelling up and dating outside of your “league”?
The truth is, there is no such thing as “out of your league”.
This “league” is a toxic illusion. Not only is it a social construct, it’s also a personal one. Let’s be honest - the “league” you place yourself in is just a way of protecting yourself from possible rejection by someone you think is more physically attractive than you. But what one person finds attractive, another might find repulsive. Human desire is an elusive thing!
We are so hung up on how others see us that we neglect our own worth. Regardless of your looks, being attractive is a mindset, and there is so much more to it than conventional good looks. Confidence, humour, and something of a personality.
This “league” ideology assumes that others are “The Prize”, whilst you have little to offer. When in reality, the person you’re drooling over probably has as many insecurities as you do. Start believing that you are the prize and others will believe it too. Create your own damn league and see what happens.
Good talk, good talk.